It is no news that sex is very important in a relationship; it bonds two people together mentally, emotionally, physically and can be a form of expressing love depending on the situation. Lack of sex or too much of it has been a culprit in many broken relationship. Because, the simple act of engaging in sex is much more complex than we can imagine, which brings us to how sex can tell when to stop dating in a relationship.
It’s all about the sex
Everyone loves crazy wild mind blowing sex with their partners which is really cool, but what happens when you are in a relationship with a partner who really is all about the sex and nothing more? He or she is not ready to invest time or money in the relationship, they are never emotionally available except when it’s time to smash. Hate to break it to you but you are not dating but just “friends with benefit” and he or she is just too much of an ass hole or wuss to tell you from the beginning, that’s what they wanted or maybe you knew and felt they’ll come around. In two words, you are the hotline bling because they are always trying to see you, but never makes plans to do anything outside the bedroom.
The libido is not in sync
Have you ever been with a partner who always wants to have sex, or a partner who’s rarely interested in sex? Either ways you and your partner are not in sync in terms of sexual urges because one person wants more and the other wants less and vice versa. Now you might be wondering what this has to do with calling of a relationship, here’s why:
It lays the basis for cheating. Two people who are sexually active in a relationship have to be sexually compatible because if they are not compatible, there is a 70 percent chance of cheating in the relationship because no one wants to feel sexually deprived or burdened. It is okay to talk about these things with your partner so you and your partner can find a way to balance and improve your sex life because if it is not addressed, you might be headed for a train wreck.
When your partner is cheating on you
It does not take rocket science to know that when your partner begins to have sex with other people, it might be time to decide whether to continue or end the relationship. Because cheating is a red flag that something is wrong in the relationship. This is simply because sex and relationship are two sides of a coin and are inseparable.
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